How much unsolicited advice are you taking to heart? How often is THAT the thing leading your life instead of you?! ⠀
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We’re all guilty of giving our advice, input and opinions without being asked. It’s OKAY. But it’s also our responsibility to pause for a second to decipher who’s advice you want to carry with you. ⠀
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Like mom’s weirdo friend Harry who tells you you should be buying a house by now – does he know about your finances? Does he know what you want for your future? Does he know about your current relationships? Your values? What really matters to you? Where you want to be in 5, 10, 20 years? YAAAA probs not. ⠀
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Sorry, HARRY does not get to tell you what you should or should not be doing with your life. No sirreeeeee. That’s all up to you!⠀
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I’m a big believer that most people have a good heart and have the best of intentions when this happens AND I also think it can be so UNHELPFUL. Like if I were to take Harry’s comment to heart, I may leave that convo riddled with anxiety feeling like I’m falling behind in life and letting the self criticism take the wheel. ⠀
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My friend, let that ish go. You decide your life. You decipher who’s advice, input and opinions get to carry weight in your world. Be picky. Be specific. Don’t take advice from someone who knows nothing about you, or isn’t living life in a way that inspires and aligns with you, okay?! … See MoreSee Less
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FREE WORKSHOP: There’s this weird thing happening these days. We’re uber connected. We have access to each other pretty much 24/7 and yet, many of us feel SO alone.⠀
Ya see, young adult years are confusing and weird. Best friends start branching out in a million directions. Linear career paths are certainly not the norm. People start coupling off. People travel. Everyone has different interests. People move. And then, there’s you? ⠀
Maybe you thought these young adult years would look something like the set of Friends where you’d be constantly surrounded by the best of friends, and figuring your life out day by day. Somehow though, that’s not your reality?⠀
It’s okay to feel lonely. It’s okay to not feel super connected right now. Let’s talk about it. Let’s explore it. Let’s work on that. ⠀
Join me for a FREE online workshop covering all things Loneliness and Isolation in Millennial life – we’re going to dive in to why this becomes a problem, what to look out for and what we can do about it because no doubt – you are not alone! MONDAY June 24th 6pm EST.
Sign up below!
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Friends! Can we all make a pact together? Let’s stop downplaying your strengths. Please. So many of us believe that owning the qualities we love about ourselves, our strengths, our skills, makes us arrogant, cocky or conceited. But it ain’t true! There’s a healthy middle ground in there. ⠀⠀
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Can we all choose to own our strengths with love and compassion for both ourselves and everyone around us? ⠀⠀
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Isn’t it so shitty that we’ve learned to hate on ourselves in order to fit in? Let’s get comfortable taking up a a bit more space as individuals and by doing so, we’ll teach others – our best friend, our neighbor, our co-workers, our baristas – that they have permission to do the same. ⠀⠀
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You with me? Love and compassion is the key here. There’s a sweet, sweet line between being arrogant and being human. All humans have strengths. Now, this doesn’t look like going around being boastful – but it’s also not downplaying how amazing you are. Truly, you are. ⠀⠀
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Take. Up. Space. Own your dang strengths. I dare you! You are truly amazing and have so much to bring to this world. 💗 … See MoreSee Less
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I’m lucky enough to work with a lot of amazing young adults who are truly incredible human being – but they’re stuck. They come to me often feeling frustrated, sad and overwhelmed about who they are, or what they’re even doing with their lives.
We have more options and opportunities to live a deeply exciting and nourishing life than ever before, yet we’ve never felt more depleted, exhausted and unfulfilled.
That, my friends, is a problem and it makes me really sad. I created this program to help YOU figure out exactly how to move forward from here.
You’re not crazy for thinking there has to be something more. You’re not too much of a dreamer for thinking there’s got to be a better way.
You’re totally on point if you’re just itching to figure this out, to grow, to evolve and to finally befriend yourself so you can start genuinely enjoying and L I V I N G and loving your life.
TODAY is the last day to hop in my Summer of Self group coaching program. I would love to support you as you learn to love and accept the bundle of awesome that you are!! Check out details below or share with a friend who you KNOW is awesome – but maybe they don’t know it just yet. 💙
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Hey! I have a big question for ya!! How do you feel about your life and where it’s headed? GULP. 😳 Welp, here’s the thing – we don’t get "there" by taking massive leaps everyday. We get "there" little by little with the small, but bold and intentional, actions we take every single day. ⠀⠀
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These practices that make your heart flutter, that make you feel more like you, that bring you peace and calm and centering, that open you up, that challenge you, that scare you a bit – they’re not so little.⠀⠀
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They’re actually really fricken significant. We get "there" by practicing the small things with great love, every damn day, ya know?
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Summer of Self starts NEXT WEEK & I would so love to support you as you find your intentional life, your peace, your sense of self, your ability to do anything ya dang please!! Send me a DM! 💗 … See MoreSee Less
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